A new initiative has come to fruition through our links with Theale Green School. Bradfield’s Assistant Chaplain, Jacinta Holmes, assists part-time as the Community Chaplain at Theale Green School, linked to Holy Trinity Church in Theale and its inspirational Reverend, Martin Davy. In a meeting before the start of the last academic year Rev Davy proposed the idea of inviting Lower Sixth pupils to meet with members of his Over 60s Connections Club, a group that encourages its members to make connections with those living in their immediate vicinity but also local businesses and organisations like Bradfield College.

To get the conversations going and flowing he suggested that the pupils talk with the members with the aim of writing up their life stories. This proposal captured the imagination of Bradfield’s Head of Partnerships, Hayley Morris, and she arranged for pupils to attend the 90-minute sessions on a Tuesday hosted in the John Cumber Hall in Theale. The pupils have spent time listening to and documenting ‘Life Stories’, serving tea, and engaging in conversations with community members.

 

I really enjoyed the opportunity to connect with the whole community. It was a really heartwarming and happy way to spend a Tuesday morning.

sophia (M)

My time with the connections group has led me to reflect on the profound value that most grandparents place on the time spent with their grandchildren. I gathered many valuable pieces of advice from listening to the life stories and experiences of growing up during the wartime period.

FLora (J)

The connections group has been a great experience for me because it has allowed me to get to know new people, all of whom have had fascinating stories and backgrounds. I have enjoyed listening to people’s lives and giving them a personal booklet that they can keep forever.

Francesca (J)

 

Danail (D), wrote up the life story of a gentleman who served in the Army for 17 years and only met his biological family as an adult after 50 years of separation.

As our conversation came to an end, I couldn’t help but feel grateful for the chance to share in this journey. His stories were more than just words on a page – they were a testament to the triumph of the human spirit and the enduring power of love. And as I bade farewell to my newfound friend, I carried with me a newfound appreciation for the good old days and the remarkable people who lived them.

Having had their conversations with group members they then prepared a personal booklet containing the life stories that they had heard. In the second session pupils then presented the booklets that they had prepared for members to keep and pass on to their families and friends.

The effectiveness of this initiative was evident in the lively and animated atmosphere on the minibus ride back to the College, a testament to the rewarding nature of the activity.

THE PUPILS HAVE BEEN WONDERFUL IN TALKING TO OUR MEMBERS… WE ARE INCREDIBLY GRATEFUL TO THEM FOR GIVING UP THEIR TIME TO SUPPORT THIS INITIATIVE, IT HAS BEEN A HUGE HIT

Rev. Martin Daly

PARTICIPATION IN THE CONNECTIONS CLUB HAS BEEN AN EXCELLENT OPPORTUNITY FOR PUPILS TO PRACTISE THE SCHOOL VALUES OF KINDESS, COLLABORATION, OPEN-MINDEDNESS, TOLERANCE, PERSPECTIVE AND OF COURSE COMMUNICATION.

Hayley Morris, Head of Partnerships