On 29 May last year, I received a message from my Dad, entitled ‘Rules to teach your son’ and my response was, rather jokingly ‘that’s the Head of School speech sorted for next year then’.

Yet here I am, a year later, about to give you a speech based upon this list and the qualities I believe it highlights that Bradfieldians display. So, either I’m rather unimaginative, or there’s really something about it that resonated with me. Let’s go with the latter…

Firstly, I feel very fortunate to have been given the opportunity to speak with you and share my story of Bradfield.

WHEN WRITING THIS SPEECH I WAS ADVISED NOT TO LOOK TO OTHERS FOR INSPIRATION BUT TO LOOK WITHIN WHICH WASN’T TOO CHALLENGING AS BRADFIELD HOLDS A VERY DEAR PLACE IN MY HEART

The more I reprised the ‘Rules to teach your son’, the more I saw that the qualities it mentioned are embodied by the College and especially the Class of 2024. I am so appreciative to have been part of an incredible cohort that lives up to everything and makes Bradfield such a special place. I am intrigued to see where life takes these talented people with all the skills to go so far in whichever path they choose. It would be easy for many of us, enclosed as we are within the ‘Bradfield Bubble’, to lose sight of the many challenges in the world around us. In an environment in which we are so privileged it would be easy for a wishbone to grow where a backbone should be, however this is not common amongst Bradfieldians.

Many people have experienced or maybe have struggles of their own right now but down to the help of Bradfield’s supportive environment come through these experiences stronger than before. My younger brother, Ben, is the perfect example of this; he has faced much adversity in his life already but never gives up and never fails to make me laugh when he walks into the room. He doesn’t know this and maybe I shouldn’t say this with him here, because he will never let me live this down, but he is the person that I admire most. I love you Ben.

I remember coming home from my first weekend and my Mum asking me ‘James, what is your favourite thing about school?’ and without a moment of hesitation I replied ‘the people’ and the answer to that question has never changed.

 

BRADFIELD’S FOUNDATION IS ITS GENUINE DOWN-TO-EARTH PEOPLE WHO FOSTER AN ENVIRONMENT OF INTEGRITY, RESPECT AND HAPPINESS THAT ALLOWS US ALL TO THRIVE

 

The JCR is ‘the ultimate team’, people who give each other credit, are willing to accept when they have made mistakes rather than pass the blame on to others as well as having the genuine interests of others at heart. Building upon the works of previous JCRs this year’s team has been instrumental in leaving Bradfield in a better place for the great work to continue. ‘The brain with the problem is usually the brain with the solution’ is a phrase given to me by my Dad. We all can all solve problems, we just need to have the desire and belief to do so and the JCR have embodied this ethos, supported by the skills Bradfield has taught us in the principles of ‘Education for Life’. That said, I don’t think that we would have been able to achieve quite in the way we did this year without Bella. Her bright personality and leadership by example rather than by explanation have set the tone; I am lucky to have been friends with her over my five years at Bradfield and it has been a pleasure to work with her in this leadership role.

I will spare you the full details of the ‘Rules to teach your son’ email, however I do have a few pointers for Bradfield pupils during their remaining time at College;

  • Be like a duck – remain calm on the surface, yet paddle like crazy underneath
  • Always eat lunch with the new kids
  • Manners maketh the Man

And a final thought, a quote from David Rocastle, 1980’s Arsenal player aka Rocky, that represents how special Bradfield is to me as Arsenal was to him and is a piece of advice to all Bradfieldians ‘Remember who you are, what you are and who you represent’.

On behalf of the 2024 Leavers Bella and James wish would like to thank every person who has contributed to their happiness at Bradfield. To the teachers and coaches, for their saintly patience and incalculable care that has meant so much. To the HSMs, Matrons and Tutors who have made House feel like home, no mean feat. To the Senior Management Team and Headmaster for leading Bradfield so well. Many thanks to all the Operational Staff who we perhaps take for granted and yet could not function without. Finally, they would like to thank all the parents for their unwavering support and belief in them and for enabling them to be a part of such an incredible place.